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Posted On 12/25/2010 18:00:55 by KannariaAysha

Well, my b/f and I broke up on the 13th. I was kinda hoping that by now, we would've talked through our situations. I wasn't feeling supported by him and when I told him how I he retaliated saying that I talked about the pregnancy too much and it consumes me. This is my 2nd child but it's been 8 years since I had Kannaria. This is brand new for me, all over again! If I wasn't concerned with the baby, should'nt that be a red flag more than anything? I'm alone because I am a concerned mom! I'm really trying not to show all these "pregnancy emotions", as he jokingly calls them. I must admit that this is hard for me. I love and miss him but this is a very clear indication of what to expect when the baby finally arrives. Oh well......women do it everyday! I won't complain! I know what I have to do! I know that we'll be fine!



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From: Admin
12/29/2010 10:15:57

Oh no, I am really really sorry to hear this Aysha. Being pregnant isn't easy at the best of times, but to have your partner reveal that he is too weak to support you during this time is just awful. Do you have family and friends near by that can help you through this difficult time?

It sounds like really are better off in the long run though... a partner that can't deal with pregnancy emotions is a partner that probably wouldn't be much help during the really difficult times.  How long had you been together?

How is your daughter taking all of this?

You sound incredibly resilient and I am really impressed by your focus on your immediate family's needs. Well done!

Let us know if you need to vent, sometimes, it helps to have willing non-judgmental ears available.



From: numbnumbnumb
12/26/2010 10:13:11

I'm so sorry to hear this Aysha - but I love your attitude.  You are 100% correct - if he can't handle the pregnancy, once the baby arrives what will happen?  You sound like a strong, amazing woman, and this is his loss.  Your children are lucky to have you.

xos