Help, I need to talk..

I felt like that but i think that you will get yur period soon, i missed my period when it was due this beginning of the month, i tested and i got[-] and i waited for my period but nothing til now, my peroid was painful, but if you do bleed and its light, then it may be that the egg is planting to the wall, its called implantion. its only suppose to last up to 3 or 4 days, but if the blood is dark and you have cramps then its your period, how old are you? im Esther and im 18. just to let you know that i was in yur situation once. me and my bf have tired to concieve twice but nothing. if you need any help or want to talk..im here

Hi Missky,

I can imagine how scared you must feel. It sounds like you have a good relationship with your boyfriend, if you were able to talk to him already - I hope he is a source of emotional support for you. Try not to worry too much until you've seen your doctor (easier said than done, I'm sure). If it turns out that you are pregnant, when you tell your friends will depend on how close you are to them. Like Beans says, miscarriage is more likely in the first 3 months, and some people wait to announce their pregnancy until after this "danger" period has passed. However, it sounds like you could really use some friends to help you shoulder the stress of your world being turned upside down. If you have a friend who you really trust and who can be there for you, I would tell her as soon as you find out for sure, or even sooner if you need support right now while you're waiting and wondering. On the other hand, some girls in high school aren't mature enough to offer that kind of support - only you know your friends well enough to guess how they might react.

You didn't mention telling your parents. For most girls this would be the scariest prospect. Do you have a good relationship with your parents, and have you thought about how you would tell them? Speaking as a parent, I can tell you that while I might be furious initially, and devastated in some ways, more than anything else I would want to be there for my daughter and support her in any way I could.

best bet just wait until you see your dr....ask him/her for the blood test can tell you way earlier and its more accurate then a hpt its very easy to get false neg from them.....and yes just wait till you know for sure if you are prego or not....if you aren't then you wont have to worry about anyone knowing otherwise maybe wait until your around 3 months before telling anyone....(if your keeping the baby) its very easy in the first three months for anything to happen....i hope you get the results you want.........