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Posted On 03/21/2011 11:05:07 by EsCHa_0419

Is it possible that if you have unprotected sex with your ame boyfirend for a year, that you will catch any disease, or like STDs or AIDs? its so werid asking, but im worried and i dont think that he'll understand, but im worried for myself,



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From: Mum1166
03/23/2011 15:58:58

I think u should take ur own health in ur hands. I advice u get a test to clear ur doubts. Henceforth, u should use protection with him and if he refuses, it's up to you to either leave him or continue. May God help u make the right decision. Cheers.



From: EsCHa_0419
03/23/2011 10:42:43


Admin wrote:


That really depends on him. If you were both healthy (i.e., disease-free) at the beginning of your relationship, and neither of you has slept with anyone else besides each other, you won't have caught anything.




If he has had unprotected sex with someone else during the course of your relationship, he is putting you at risk for an STD. Also, I suppose it's possible that he could have had an STD since before you started dating him. Some STDs don't have obvious symptoms, especially in men.




You can get an STD test for yourself. It's a good idea for anyone who's had unprotected sex. But the only way to know if he's putting you at risk is to ask him.



Thanks, but like you see, im very concerned because when he gets drunk he goes out with friends and cousins, they too cheat on thier wives an girlfriends, but her tells me that he dont do that. and i ask him how do u remember when jus a minute ago u were tellin me that u dnt know half the part of what u did last nite. But sometimes i think his lying because he hesitates to tell me things and ends up changing the subject. i never in this whole entire relationship i never messed around on him and i fell deep inside that his turning his back on me.... boy this sucks!!!! If i talk to him about gettin a STD test, he'll laugh in my face and wont take it seriously...im so scared out of my mind..



From: Mum1166
03/21/2011 12:52:47
You should get a test to ease your concerns. If you've been faithful to each other, getting a negative in your test could (note i said 'could') be an indication that he too has been faithful to you. It's also a good idea to discuss protection with him. God bless.


From: Admin
03/21/2011 12:34:38

That really depends on him. If you were both healthy (i.e., disease-free) at the beginning of your relationship, and neither of you has slept with anyone else besides each other, you won't have caught anything.


If he has had unprotected sex with someone else during the course of your relationship, he is putting you at risk for an STD. Also, I suppose it's possible that he could have had an STD since before you started dating him. Some STDs don't have obvious symptoms, especially in men.


You can get an STD test for yourself. It's a good idea for anyone who's had unprotected sex. But the only way to know if he's putting you at risk is to ask him.