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im pregnant but confused
Posted On 02/23/2010 02:17:52 by mhey

im gonna be a first time mom but im confused...:( my bf loves me and i love him too...but his mom dont like me..they both argue and then my bf moved at my place..so we stay together now...am confused if i should still continue this pregnancy or abort this baby...im so emotionally hurt about what ive heard (negative comments) about me...i really dont know what to do...sometimes i think that i will just ignore them...but sometimes i cant help myself got hurt about the negative comments about me...pls could someone be my friend here and can share my feelings with? i hope theres someone out there that could be my friend...it will be my pleasure to have some friends from here too..anyone is welcome..!

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From: mhey
03/10/2010 23:55:26

hello alicia..am feeling good now after i knew that his family dont like me at all..my bf told me that i should not mind them..whats important is that we love each other and were having our first baby soon...im 9 weeks pregnant now...i just want to ask if the baby has an heartbeat already?cos i cant feel it..i cant feel any cravings for food or anything else..same as normal as im not pregnant...i just want to ask u if in my age 24,is it possible that i can have a myoma?



From: mhey
02/26/2010 00:56:49

thank you for such inspiring words from such a strong woman...everytime i read your comments,i feel like i can make it...they cant let me down...anyway,i just want to share that my bf talks to her mom that wethear she like me or not she have to live with it..cos he really love me...im really overwhelmed by his love for me..he left his family just to be with me..he wants usto get married next week,but his father told him that he shouldnt be in a hurry...well i guess his father got a point...we really love each other..he takes good care of me..i feel so special...and most of all,we are both excited for the baby! my due date is this coming october 10...hope to hear more from u guys! anyway,u can send me instant messages heres my ym id mhey_vizcarra...thanks a lot ! :*



From: alicia_22
02/23/2010 19:18:27

my fiance and i have been togeather for 5 years and his family doesnt like me at all so i know how you feel but i would never choose to abort my baby because it is a living thing and if he wants this baby he will stand by you and if you get rid of it he may not be happy with that if YOU want this baby then dont give it up because of some one else i have my 4th on the way and cannot be any happier than now so good luck and you can add me if you need someone to talk to



From: aicaela
02/23/2010 08:10:38

I agree with Shells! And no one can resist the power of baby! I have seen the most "heartless" women melt when they are presented with their grandchild, lol. Keep your chin up and CONGRATS! How far along are you?



From: Shells83
02/23/2010 07:01:49

Some moms are very overbearing, but I'm sure in the future she'll come around. I know she has hurt you, but be the bigger person and forgive her. You and your bf should just focus on your new family together. Tell him it's time to cut the umbilical cord lol. I mean it's really sad to be a grown women and to put the women your son chooses to create a family threw this. If I were you I would just make the best of the situation (your a new mommy with a little life in you, thats so exciting!) Ignore anything she has to say that's negative, put that smile on your face and act like nothing can bring you down. She'll get tired of trying to ruin things eventually.