Trying to Conceive | any moms with advices....is this normal

Hey all. I’m new in the forum.

I have been trying for a baby and last periods i had was on the 16/2/2010 and this month i have not had any yet. Its past 3 days now.

My usual periods comes with, abdomen pains and heavy breast swallowing. But this month I just have Tender swollen breasts. And I have stomach gas. Headaches. Light fatigue. Burning sensation in my tummy and on the very exact day (17/3/2010) I had spotting (very brownish colour but very little), And heavy discharge until yesterday. and im going potty in the middling of the night which never happened. i feel sleepy but i cant rest my mind seems all filled and cant think straight. cant sleep at night.

I thought I was pregnant so I did an hpt today but it was negative.

Do any of you have some advice for me? My body is experiencing some weird things which I can’t explain…. I’m just very desperate to have a baby that’s all. Please help

same was happen to me...but after 12days of late period?my menstruation come...i don't know what's happening..I'm very regular period cycle but this time is very weird I check PT also but negative result...this time no pain at all no cramping,no breast soreness&tenderness,no nouseaus but still always feeling sleepy and some minor headache...I advice to you don't be so panic...relax and rest your body and mind as you can..co'z it affect our condition to our inner body..maybe your to early to check PT so wait another week to confirm ++..

Hello Shammu! sounds like you could be pregnant, especially missing a period. I'm not sure why the hpt was neg. Unless you've been under some abnormal stress, which can alter your periods. I've been having the same type of symptoms but I may have them confused with pms..not sure. Since I'm trying to conceive, I've been more conscious of my body, and I'm feeling symptoms that have probably been there all the time and I've never noticed. My lmp was 2/28/10 and I should start again around 3/26 - 3/28. It's very difficult. I know especially the waiting. I hope things work out for you and there's a beautiful healthy baby growing inside of you. I would also suggest going to an ob to take a blood test. Sometimes hpt's will be neg but blood may be pos.  Good Luck Salaam Alaikum!

thanks shawn and concon.

abt 5 months back i had a missed period and i took so much of it in to heart that my heart broke. this time im trying not to tell anyone, jus my husband knows i didnt get my periods. i jus didnt make much of if infront of him. i want a positive answer this time.

im having hight hopes cause im having frequent urinations and im still getting faint colored blood once in a while. im bloated most of the day. 

if am already in the process if i ever meet u guys the party will be on me

thanks so much. your comments do mean so much when my mind is going rollercoaster. specially when coming from experienced great moms..

i'll keep updating

Hi Shammu

My last period was on the 15/02/2010 which is one day before yours. I just found out yesterday that i am expecting after experiencing some of the same symptoms as yourself, tender breasts, headaches, fatigue, toilet frequency, swollen stomach, craving for lamb kebab meat which ive never eaten in my life bcoz i hate the smell? lol and also a strange taste of ginger beer when im drinking pepsi? I didnt feel pregnant and i still dont too be honest but it was my partner who put the idea into my head to do the test?

Even if you are pregnant it is still possible to have a negative result? Although it sounds like to me that you are I would suggest doing another one in a couple of days time to be sure? I really hope you are but if not good luck for future trying and i hope to hear your happy news soon xx  

thanks guys. thanks for the support.

well i did the pregnancy test and the the line was slightly pinkish. but still both lines were visible. i guess im officially 99% pregnant.

i too overwhelmed . and still havent told one. and i will going in for a  blood test on may be sunday. jus to make it a 100% .

i am thinking of ways to tell my husband and family. any ideas .......