Too Hot to Handle | The "Am I Pregnant" Question

I just wonder; I've seen it everwhere on the internet where people can ask questions. The oh so asked, "Am I Pregnant?" question. The thing is if you think you are pregnant, wouldn't you be at the store buying a test & at home doing the math instead of posting a thread asking people who don't know you this question? If you are on the internet, you can find sites to find syntoms or when you were ovalating by yourself for more info before you run to the store instead of wasting time asking. If it comes back negative, its either too early so test in 2 weeks & take precautions or its just your period, anyone should know that really...

I apologize if this sounds like bashing, yet I wonder what everyone else's opinion is on this subject.

this sight is for people to come for suport and to feel comfterble and people like you make it hard to open up this is not a sight for people to come to be rude its a place for our hopes and dreams and it makes me verry unhappy to have read your blog alot of girls that come here are not verry sure of whats going on and alot of them do test but its still nice to hear what others think alot of teens come here and are not eaven used to there bodies yet so just back off a little and let us all do our own thing           &nbs p;    best wishes to you and good luck with you and your bashing

Whoa, wasn't expecting that. And I won't be rude in my response, for I wasn't aiming on bashing.

I'm just curious; yes this is a place for support if you KNOW you are pregnant. Or need information on the subject of conception.

If you are a teenager or even an adult seeking support of finding out you are pregnant, then why not ask a best friend or a relative in person than a complete stranger without a face? You can form a better support system in RL than on the internet if that is the problem.

some people are to scared to go to a friend or family member and sometimes you just like to here what others think and im not trying to be rude but that was verry frustrating to come here and feel attacked like an idot     and im sorry if i seemed offensive but you did too any how good luck and i hope everything goes well for you in your  future

I must reply to this one ... SureBaby ranks high in search engines for "signs of pregnancy" and "early pregnancy symptoms" and pretty much any combination thereof, so it makes sense that so many come on the community and are either scared or excited and ask the same question.  It's been that way for years, and can be frustrating hearing the same questions over and over. 

I too remember how I felt when I thought I was pregnant.  Early in my marriage, my husband had indicated that he didn't want children, because of how hard children will have it in the future.  The first time I thought I was pregnant we didn't have two nickels to rub together and coming up with $6 for a pregnancy test was something that I couldn't come up with without telling him.  I probably would have been one of those people asking the question.  So I can feel for people who are anxious and in the same boat.  My husband did in fact jump for joy when the test came back positive, go figure. 

After saying all that, as a part of the community, I think it would be great if we had many other topics that concern parenting, pregnancy and baby.  So feel free to start up other sections on the site that you think moms would be interested in.  I think it will all come together... we are still a pretty new community.  I am glad you are all a part of it. 

it depends widelty on a indivuals situation

buy telling people or asking for other people advice it becomes a relaity by looking it up on the internet it just a little reasearch for the possibilities of it happen

i dont know if you are blessed with lots of supportive familt members or frends but some people dont have that social network and it becomes a worry sometmes if you are not fincial stable, of age & perhaps in a stable reltionship

people can be far too quick to judge but you dont realli know till you have restrictions in ur life to know how hard it is

i agree to disagree with the view that why are people not asking friends or taking test................everyone s entitled to their opinion & i hop ei dont offend

Some people think they are pregnant and don't want to be.  They might be scared or in denial and just want someone to tell them there's hope they aren't.  The opposite applies too.  If you think you might be pregnant or even you just want to be pregnant or want to believe you have symptoms...some people just want others to tell them there's a posibility to give them hope. 

Others are just so young and sometimes they don't even have a clue about what ovulation is or that you can calculate it or when you get symptoms.  Rather than searching all over the internet for stuff they don't understand.  It's sometimes easier for them to come to a site like this where they can talk about it with someone.  :)

I have to agree with NumbX3, this particular part of the forum is the perfect place for difficult topics.

It is fine to answer with your own opinions, however, lets keep the mudslinging and personal comments to our inner voices okay?

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nice topic