my partner and i are trying for a baby.and no luck yet
but my ovulation calender say's that i was ovulating on the 23,24,25,26,of oct.but in the 24,oct i bleed after sex and it was very light and pink
and it has bn like that ever since but on the 30oct i have a smear and then on the 5,nov i think i started my periods as it was heavy and lasted untill the 8th so i don't no if im an pregnant or if it is something eals ant advice please
I am sorry that no one has posted a reply yet; I am new to this website, but not new to parenting and children. Let me start my saying that for most women, the first clue you are pregnant is missing that period. If you are bleeding at around the same time (and I think you are by your ovulation calculations) that you normally do, then you are most likely not pregnant. If your bleeding is heavier than it usually is, this could be normal too, depending on your age and health. Fluctuations in flow are normally not a concern. However, large blood clots are a big problem, and I was always told, bigger than a quarter is too big. I wish you luck on trying to concieve, we are also trying. I will tell you also, that it is normal about 10 to 12 days after you have intercourse, the fertilized egg will burrow a bit into your uterine walls and this can cause some very slight pink discharge. But bleeding at this time would normally signify no pregnancy and a normal period.
I was saddened to hear your concerns about you partner leaving. I think that trying to conceived with no results is very frustrating and can definitely cause some insecurity issues. You should try to talk to your partner about your concerns, and remember if you haven't conceived yet, it doesn't mean you never will. If you haven't already, talk to your doctor. I wish you the best and will say a prayer for you.
I understand how frustrating it is that when you and your partner is trying so much to conceive a child and then you can't. Trust me i know what it is like to have that feeling. Honestly, it was a bit unusual that your partner is telling you that he will find someone else to get pregnant with if you can't. he should have been supportive and try to encourage you more rather than making you feel so useless at all. But i guess most men feel like that when they know they aren't the one who has the problem. This was my situation before... I had kids with my first marriage.. I was very fertile that time that we were trying so hard not to get pregnant..but even that didn't work.. we were doing only withdrawal as birth control but i ended up pregnant with our son.. of course many years later my relationship with my first husband didnt work out, and it was over.. then years later, i found someone in my life and fell in love.. we wanted so much to have children.. I thought to myself, it shouldn't be a problem because i am so fertile that getting pregnant isn't a problem for me.. But then my second husband told me that he had tried to have kids before with the other relationship he had and it never worked for him.. They even considered fertility treatments and it didn't work.. I guess that was one of the reason why the relationship never worked but it could be also some other reasons.. So Anyways, i was so confident myself that i might give him a child because it's just the male factor, the reason why we couldn't conceived naturally.. we had been together for 2 years and we didn't manage to conceive.. we tried last year, fertility treatments.. so far everything in my case looks normal but my husband's sperm count is very low.. so the fertility doctor suggested that we do IVF (In Vitro Fertilization) and ICSI (Intra-Cytoplasmic Sperm Injection) treatments. which means i had to take fertility medications even though i was fertile. I had to take hormonal injections after they check my blood, ultrasound of my ovaries and monitoring my menstrual cycle and ovulation. I had to inject these hormone stuff in my tummy for 2 weeks so then my eggs will be ready to take my eggs out and then as they did the egg pick up thing.. they take it to this dish and my husband had to give his sperm sample so the doctors will pick the best motile sperm so they can inject one single sperm into one egg.. they picked up 15 eggs from me but only 5 were fertilized.. so we did the embryo transfer.. meaning they have to put one fertilize embryo into my uterus the other 4 fertilized embryos were frozen.. it was a very exhausting and kinda painful , the whole fertility procedure (it sucks because i'm not the one who's having the problems). but of course i wanna give it a try.. well i was so caught up with it that it didnt work the first time. it was very disappointing i tell you.. i was even thinking that there's no way we will ever get children that i didn't think our relationship will ever work without having kids.. well i thought once about leaving him... so anyways... we had 4 embryos left frozen so i thought to myself, well maybe i should just give it a try.. even though theres only 70% chance that it might work through FET (Frozen Embryo Transfer), there is also some possibility that the embryos wont survive during thawing process.. so yeah, we tried it.. After having ultrascans of my ovaries and my ovulation .. finally they set the date for my transfer.. it was april 24,2008. I tried not to think so much about it and just relax as much as possible and not stressing about whether it works or not.. i didnt want to get my hopes up for nothing so i tried to keep myself busy.. I was supposed to take a pregnancy test on may 8,2008.. but i decided to wait until the next day to do it just to be sure... then the next day i took the pregnancy test.. AND IT WAS POSITIVE!! we were so happy about it.. I mean finally after the years of my husband wanting to have child, i finally give it to him... it was even very shocking for him.. and still is.. I am 33 weeks pregnant now, expecting a baby boy and my due date is on january 15,2009!
So anyways you have read my story.. Miracles do happen if you keep trying..If you have tried to conceive naturally but still didnt succeed, I suggest that you should try to consider fertility treatments.. it's quite expensive but really worth it.. And you will find out from the fertility doctor, the reason why you couldn't conceive naturally and they will suggest a better option for you. and also remember not to think so much about conceiving. try to live your life normally and not stress too much so you can achieve it.. :) GOOD LUCK.. HOPEFULLY YOU WILL GET PREGNANT SOON!
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A happy mom to be!
It's been over a week since we last did it. Today however I had some brownish mucus discharge (gross I know, sorry) I had some cramping last thursday and then it started again today same as discharge started and my complection seems to well really good.
I have PCOS and have had trouble getting prego. My doctor put me on BC for 3 months after the last day of my last period my husband and I started to try its been now 12 days since we started.
Is it possilbe to have pregnancy signs or what else could this be?
